Communication

Just like the backbone of a body,the root of a tree and the beams of a wooden house.Communication is the foundation to every types of relationship.It is the key,the stairway to heaven for all relationships.And by communicating,it is not only limited to talking.That's why people who are handicapped are still able to have friends and even a lover.People always ask why to their problems instead of the one question they should ask,how.Isn't it better to focus on how to fix the problem rather than questioning why did it happen and never finding a solution at all?After you've fixed the problem then proceed to your 'whys'.Probably take 5 seconds for the opposition to tell you.Otherwise,good luck in trying to save the relationship's gap when it get bigger and larger by the second.

Everybody knows what happens when the main part of a structure malfunctions.It crumbles,the entire body structure that is.Exactly like how relationships cannot survive without communication.And no,it isn't that simple.Like the thought of "Oh,then we should talk more",just to save the relationship.If you ever had that thought,deep down you already know that the relationship wouldn't work out.I mean,if you dislike someone,but lie to yourself just so that you won't be hated by others,why not just save the trouble and tell that person that the relationship isn't working?Communication,like many other things,is a want."I want to talk to him","I want to talk to her",stuff like that.Not,"hmm,I should talk to that person".There is no 'should' in life.You don't say "I should go to the toilet" when you're having a stomache right?

Anyway,sometimes it's even more complicated.Due to circumstances,people might not be able to communicate due to a difference in timing.People get upset because of that,may even complain.Well,don't.How do you think the other person feels?Yeah,that's right,exactly like you.We may go on and on complaining forever but nothing will ever be solved.Here's what you can do,spend every minute,every second possible to communicate instead of using it for whining.Don't ever feel bad or awful because of this.The chain gets longer and lasts forever.Like he feels bad because she feels bad when he feels bad about seeing her feel bad etc etc.Get what I mean?Put aside the part where we 'feel bad'.Find other alternatives,I don't know what,I don't know how.Somewhere inside that head of yours,you know how.Thus,this is what I'm doing.Communicating.Because this is the only alternative I have left,updating frequently so that you may know what's going on and because I know you'll read my blog.Toodles.
Till next time.